Message About Mission Trip Meeting!!!

Hello CSM parents!

This Sunday (2/13) after church (11:45ish) we will be holding a meeting concerning the high school mission trip to South Dakota. In this meeting we will discuss some details of the trip and everything you need to know in order to benefit from the Trivia Night / Silent Auction which will be held on Saturday March 5^th! I know that this is short notice and I truly apologize for dropping the ball…hug? If you have any questions/comments/concerns don’t hesitate to shoot me an email or give me a call. See you Sunday!

Jeremy Proemsey

Student Ministries Pastor

Concord Church

(314) 843-3500

The Mid-Week Update!!!

Lesson Recap

 This week we transitioned from our lessons on 'character' to our new study on 'decisions'.  We discussed what goes into making a decision, and the difference between conscious and subconscious decisions. We looked at the process of making a decision, which involves thought (mind), weighing consequences (heart and mind), and action (heart).

What do the following verses tell us about making decisions?

Thoughts:

Pr 14:15

1 Chr 28:9

Mind:

Rm 8:7

Rm 12:2

Rm 14:13

Heart:

Ex 25:2

2 Cor 9:7

Ex 35:21

1 Ki 3:9

Pr 10:8

Pr 16:23

Pr 23:19

Pr 27:19

1 Tim 3:1

Looking at these verses we see a lot goes into decisions we make!

We started our new unit with some biblical context regarding the death of King Solomon, and the transition of power to his son Rehoboam.  His poor decision ended up dividing the kingdom into two nations. He was approached by an assembly of Israelite leaders led by Jeroboam.  They pleaded with Rehoboam to lighten the harsh policies of Solomon.  On bad advice from his young counselors, Rehoboam refused.  The result of this was a rebellion, and the division of the kingdom into two nations.  Jeroboam became king in the Norther Kingdom.  To unify these tribes he built calf -shrines on the northern and soutern boundries.  For his idolatry, God judged Jeroboam, declaring his family would be eliminated from Israel.  In 1 Kings 14:21-31 we find a description of the 17 year reign of Rehoboam in the Southern Kingdom.  He continued the policy of Baal worship in the land.  He was forced to surrender treasures from the temple to the invading king of Egypt.  He also was involved in numerous skirmishes with Jeroboam and the Northern Kingdom.

Anatomy of a Grave Decision -1 Kings 12:3-24

Take Time, When Possible 3-5

Thinks of a time you made a hasty decision  What might have changed hod you taken time to make the decision? In Rehoboam's case, the people wanted an immediate decision, but the King asked them to give him some time.  His example shows a good decision.

Seek Advice 6-8

King Rehoboam asked the people to leave him alone so that he could seek advice. Who do you usually turn to when you face a tough choice?  Rehoboam turned to both elders from Solomon's reign and to young men he grew up with.  What qualities should we seek in those we consult for advice?

Weigh Effects With Great Care 16-21

King Rehoboam refused to heed wise counsel.   This resulted in stricter policies, which caused people to rebel.  It resulted in the stoning of one of his officers, and his own humiliation in a near death experience.  All of Israel was affected by his decision.  How can we avoid making decisions that might harm other people or hinder God's work?  Let God's Word be your guide.  You might no find detailed responses, but God's character is consistent.  By following the guiding principles in Scripture, we can reach the right decision.

Listen to God 22-24

After the people in the Northern Kingdom rebelled against Rehoboam, they chose Jeroboam as king.  Rehoboam attempted to reclaim the nothern tribes.  He responded by listening to God's warning through the prophet, Shemaiaih.

So.  How do we apply good decision-making  principles?

• Take your time.  Avoid snap decisions when possible.
• Seek Godly advice.  Evaluate the pros and cons.
• Make time to listen to God.

SPOT Super Sunday

 

...was just that!  All who came had a great time of fellowship, game-watching...and laughing at commercials!  Many thanks to the LaRowe's for hosting the party. 

Big CHILLi Dinner

The envelope for donations and the sign-up sheet will remain in the SPOT folder up until the week before we have to serve our youth!  On Saturday, March 19th we will then cook and serve a chili dinner at the Big Chill!  What a great way to minister to our kids!

Trivia Night

...is Saturday, March 5th.  Sign up as an individual or as a table and join the fun!  We will also be providing a basket for the silent auction.  What type of basket you ask?  We will have a sheet in the upcoming SPOT folder with some of the choices for you to vote on!  Keep your eyes peeled!  Remember that all proceed go towards our youth mission trips.

Prayer Requests

• Continued prayers for Zenobia.
• Susan's great aunt passed away last week. 

   

Super SPOTmail!!

Lesson Preview

As I prepare this lesson preview I do so wondering what the outside world will look like on Sunday.  This week God displayed his power and creativity through weather patterns.  As I consider the weather, I could make the decision not to prepare the lesson because we might not meet this Sunday.  What would be the consequences?

Each morning this week I had to make a choice - do I go in to work or not?  What will be the outcome?  Decisions are actually a very complex aspect of life.  And we make tons of them every day.

  
The topic of our study this Sunday is decisions.  Decisions reveal a lot about a person.  For example, the friends we choose reveal something about what we value.  Who we are (our character) impacts our decisions.  BUT, the process comes full circle because our decisions also impact who we are.  This can get to be pretty heavy stuff. 

Here is how all of this fits in to our study.  Rehoboan, Solomon's son and the successor to the throne of Israel after Solomon's death, was immediately faced with a momentous decision.  The way that he handled this decision provides an important lesson for us.  The context of this lesson comes from 1 Kings 12:1-16:28.  The lesson itself is based on 12:3-24. 

I hope you decide to come and join in on the discussion this Sunday.

Don

Super Bowl Party!

The LaRowes are hosting the second annual SPOTclass Super Bowl Bash on Sunday.  Last year we had a great time of food, fellowship and commercial-er-football watching.  This year's game may even be interesting!   

Bring your favorite snacking appetizer or dessert -- Brooks and Ginger will provide the beverages.               

Game time is about 5:30 p.m. and the gates open for the party at 4:30 p.m.

Even if we don't see you that often, come anyway - it will be a lot of fun.

Art of Marriage

Don't forget the Art of Marriage,  a two-day seminar at Concord next weekend, Friday Feb. 11 and Saturday Feb. 12.  The meeting will be made up of six video sessions and lots of interactive discussion. The seminar runs 7-9 p.m. on Friday and 9 a.m. - 4 p.m. on Saturday.

The final day for advanced registration is Wednesday,  February 9.  Cost for the seminar is $35.  Add $20 if you want  the Chick-Fil-A box lunch on Saturday. (is that really a decision , we're talking Chick-Fil-A - would someone actually say no????).  Miss the Feb. 9 deadline and you pay $45 to get in and there's no lunch!

Several couples from our class are already registered, so you won't want to miss to opportunity to hear all their deep dark secrets!  

Prayer List  (for details click www.spotsspot.blogspot.com)

• Zenobia Perry's cancer treatment
• The Proemseys and their babies
• Ginger LaRowe's sister Jane
• Susan Hurt's mother
• Search for worship minister
• Class members struggling with decisions
• The Budget & Finance Committee 
• "Snow" Life groups

Snack List

February 6  -- Kevin & Susan Hurt

February 13 -- Zenobia Perry

BIG CHILLi Dinner

The SPOTclass will be cooking and serving chili during CSM's Big Chill weekend on Saturday, March 19.  We're currently collecting money  to buy the necessary ingredients.  You'll find the envelope in the SPOTfolder again this week.

If you have a favorite chili recipe, please pass it along.  We'll all team up in the church kitchen to prepare and serve the meal.  We want this to be a treat the kids won't soon forget!

 

The Mid-Week Update!!!

Lesson Recap

This past Sunday we continued our study of Kings and "Does My Character Count?".  We covered 1 Kings 9:10-11:43, which covered the final 20 years of Solomon's reign. Both the positive details and the negative are included in the narrative.  Complete with dissatisfied trade partners to slave labor, a lot about the building of the temple is included.  We also see Solomon's other accomplishments, and see shere he meets the queen of Sheba.  A list of his enemies is even included in 11:14-40!

We looked at character versus reputation and discussed the differences.  Character is the combination of emotional, intellectual, and moral qualities of a person. Reputation is the general estimation held of one by the public, or how others perceive us to be.  So why is character important, and why does it matter?

What part of No Don't You Understand?  11:1-3

     

Here we see Solomon break character when he loved foreign women despite being instructed by the Lord not to.  Solomon showed the same love (or ahab) to these women that he did God.  How is that possible?  How could Solomon prevented this?  How does it make you feel when you instruct your children not to do something and they do it anyway?  God tole Solomon not to intermarry with non-Israelites. Look at 2 Corinthians 2:17 and see what God prompted Paul to write there.  As our teens enter the "dating phase" of life, how will you handle this issue?

Heart Failure 11:4-8

In verse 4 (NIV) the word heart is mentioned 3 times.  Character is another word that could be used in place of the 'heart' of David or Solomon.  Importantly noted here was that Solomon was later on in his life.  Have you noticed that believers often become indifferent to their relationship with God in the later years of their life?  What causes this?  Due to the direct influence of his foreign wives,  Solomon allows his heart to be turned to other gods.  One of the worst of these was Molech, which required child sacrifices which God strictly disavowed.  See 2 Kings 23:10, Jer 32:35, Lv 18:21 and 20:2.  As a result of this, Solomon did not fully devote his heart to the Lord.  Joshua gave the Israelites a choice to wholly follow God before entering the promised land in Joshua 24:14-15.  Jesus did the same in Mt 4:10 and 6:24.  What can we do do prevent our hearts from wandering or failing?

What Might Have Been 11:9-13

What began as a compromise for the sake of his wives became a spiritual meltdown for Solomon.  This broken covenant with God not only affected the relationship between he and God, but also with God and the nation of Israel.  God had appeared to Solomon twice, so he had no excuse for his ignorance of the law.  God said that he would tear the kingdom away from Solomon and give it to his servant.  This, however, did not negate the covenant that God established with David.  What might have happened had Solomon stayed true to the covenant?

Sin does have consequences.  It almost always affect more than just the offender, yet the results may not be evident or immediate.  They might include on us missing out on God's plan to use and bless us.  Have you ever seen a believer really blow it?  Let's make a pact to never become that believer so that we never have to wonder what might have been. Character really does matter.

SPOT Super Bowl Party!!

This Sunday (the 6th) at 4:30 at the LaRowe's.  Drinks provided so bring whatever you want to snack on!  If you need them, directions will be provided on Sunday.

Big CHILLi Supper

We now have the sign-up sheet and the donation envelope in the Sunday folder for this event on March 19th.  It will be a great way to help minister to our kids.  We will get all the ingredients together and cook and serve the chili at church that Saturday night.  Any and all help will truly be appreciated.

Snacks

• 2/6   the Hurt's
• 2/13 Zenobia Perry  
• 2/20  the Massey's 

Watch This Space...

Coming Soon!!!...the date and details of our annual camping trip!!!

Prayer Requests

• Continued prayers for Zenobia (see the blog entry before this one for an update!)
• Phil and Gingers sister Jane is dealing with spontaneous abscesses caused by a couple of invasive bacterium.  She is currently on 6 months of high-dose antibiotics, but has a very suppressed immune system.
• Susan's mother who is still suffering in pain.  They determined that she has a mass in her abdomen, and they are going to begin tests to find out what it is.
• Neil Stubbs is looking for employment.
• Life Groups as they enter week 5.  Pray for the leaders of each group and those that open their homes for the studies.
• Pray for class members who have been absent for a long time, some considering other options.

  

   

Zenobia Update!!!

Dear Friends and Family,

On Tuesday 1/25/11, I had my 4th and final chemo!  Yea!!!

After 5.5 hours of chemo, I was rolled in a wheelchair to meet with my surgical oncologist Dr. Radford who will do my surgery.  I was pretty drowsy on benadryl, so I don't have a clear recollection of this ride, but I do remember wondering if my tubes connected from the pole to my port were gonna rip out bc it was such a challenge to roll me from place to place!  I had an ultrasound done and the technician said she didn't see a tumor! The only reason she knew where i had a tumor was because I have a very tiny clip where the tumor was located.  This does not mean, however that there are no more cancer cells, but if anything it tells me that the treatment I have had thus far has been working!

After the appointments, my sister Alice (who is lovingly here from Fort Worth TX helping me) took me home and I crashed for a couple of hours.  Thankfully, this treatment has been much better than the first two.  Today is Saturday and i was able to still eat earlier today.  The metal taste has not taken over my mouth, but the indigestion is still pretty bad.  I've only been taking Aleve twice a day and the pain is tolerable.  I told one friend that it feels like fat snails are crawling thru my bones, and when i want to nap, they want to keep a movin'.  Can they not just take a break?

My surgery is scheduled for Thurs, Feb 17th at 7a.  I will have 2 incisions - one in my armpit for the sentinel nodes test (this is a test to see if any of the lymph nodes have cancer) and then another incision where the tumor was to make sure that all cells have been removed and that the area around is clear.  Recovery will be at least 3 days.  Supposedly I won't be able to raise my right arm - at the moment I can't think of any reason to raise it except to check for arm pit odor, so I think I'll be ok.

It is so hard to believe that 3.5 months has passed since I was diagnosed with breast cancer.  I was looking through my box of cards the other day, so thankful that this chemo ride is almost done, thankful that the treatment has been working, but more than anything that I have had people like you who were willing to ride with me. 

Radiation and herceptin, meds, or whatever the heck is ahead will be a piece of cake compared to the chemo.  I'm so glad it's almost done!  NO MO' CHEMO!

In the meantime, I gotta figure out when to let my hair start growing out bc I've had this stubble growing out of my head that is driving me crazy.  My hair isn't supposed to be growing yet - so what the heck is coming out of my head? 

Thank you for all your prayers, your support, your unending kindness.  It was an honor having you on board on my roller coaster ride!

Love, Zenobia